Here is How To Finger A Pussy Properly | Clitoral Stimulation

I suggest you start off with clitoral stimulation. The reason why is that it is easiest for a woman to have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. That way you will get the confidence you need to advance to other forms of fingering.

Not only that, but the clitoris is the only organ in the entire human body solely devoted to pleasure. It has no other purpose. It is made to be stimulated. To emphasize that point, here is something you should know: The clitoris has twice as many sensory nerve fibers (the thing that gives you pleasure) compared to the penis.

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And, once she’s had an orgasm with you, the “mental barrier” is broken, and she can now relax and have other orgasms more easily.

The first orgasm is always the hardest, so you need to make her come with clitoris fingering techniques, and then she will have an easier time coming from other types of fingering techniques.

To put a nail in the coffin, 3 out of 4 women who DO reach any type of orgasm, need clitoral stimulation. So this is a skill that once learned, will serve you for the rest of your life.

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How To Find Clitoris

To begin fingering her clit, you must first find it.

Instead of letting you fumble in the dark and try to find it yourself, or using an overly long and detailed word explanation, I thought I just include a picture and let it speak for itself.

The prepuce is just a fancy term for the clitoral hood. The clit itself is beneath that hood. To find it, lift that hood up and you should feel something like a small button of nerves underneath your finger.

The good news is that as she gets more and more turned on, her clit grows in size. That means if you properly made her horny before even beginning the fingering techniques (like I told you so) her clit should be so big that you will have little problem finding it.

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How To Stimulate Clitoris

When it comes to stimulating her clit, you want to start slowly. Unlike us guys, who want to be jacked off as fast as humanly possible, women prefer a slower pace – at least at first.

A lot of girls have their preferences and things that make them come. So, while you should take the info provided here as a foundation of your fingering technique, be sure to listen to her feedback and adapt your approach to each girl.

Use your index and middle finger and stroke gently along her clit.  Pay close attention to her reactions: gasps, “oh yeah” and her grabbing you and squeezing tightly means you are doing it right. Lack of any physical reaction and/or silence means you need to switch it up.

Next, start using your fingers to go in circles. Again, you want to start slowly, but as soon as you see that she is comfortable, start increasing your circling speed.

Also, be sure to change your circling direction – if you did it clockwise the last five times, now do it counterclockwise and vice versa.

If you’re using two fingers, put her clitoris between them and then gently roll it. Think of her clitoris as a dial you are now tuning to find the right frequency until you find just the right amount of her moaning. Then stay there and just keep going – don’t change anything,

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Listen to her directions.

The correct clitoral stimulation, much more than the g spot and the deep spot stimulation, varies greatly from woman to woman.

One cool trick you can use to find out what she likes is to ask her to masturbate in front of you. Explain to her that you want to see precisely what turns her on so you can do more of that. This method sometimes works better than her telling you what to do because she might not even be aware of what she’s doing to get off.

While she’s fingering herself, pay close attention to her fingering speed, tempo and the exact place she is stimulating. Put your hand gently atop of hers so you can feel just how much strength and pressure she’s using.

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One other thing

When you start applying the other fingering techniques that follow, don’t forget the clitoris. Try stimulating both the clit and the g spot/deep spot at the same time.

For example, let’s say you are starting to stimulate her g spot. While you are doing that, use the thumb of that same hand to finger her clit. Or, if you are fingering her deep spot, use your opposite hand. Get creative.

The effect of simultaneously fingering two pleasure points on her body will shock you. You might have to hold her down because she will be twisting and turning because of the pleasure you’re giving her.

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In this book, I’m going to reveal to you, all the techniques and moves for fingering a pussy. You might wonder if that is even necessary. After all, you’ve got a penis – isn’t that enough to completely satisfy her in bed?

Just imagine…she’s dripping wet, bending her body and moaning, begging you to stop teasing her and start fucking her. She’s so turned on that she can’t even finish sentences. You’re in complete control and can bring her endless pleasure or take it away, just by a flick of your finger.

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