╭∩╮ Secrets to Make Your Smooch Sexy & Irresistible!

Making out is a popular way for individuals and couples to initiate sexual contact and enjoy each other’s bodies without sexual intercourse. Whether you’re making out for the first time or consider yourself a make-out expert, here are a few helpful steps and techniques to try before you pucker up.

1. Use your whole body.

When you first start making out with someone, you may notice that there may be some distance between your body and your partner’s. If you want to increase your make-out session’s intensity, close this gap by pressing yourself against your partner’s body. This physical contact can bring both you and your partner’s attention to your bodies rather than just your lips and can be an easy, comfortable way to initiate more physical contact.

2. Keep your kisses varied.

Using the same kissing technique throughout a single make-out session can leave you or your partner feeling uninspired or bored. Change up your kissing style as you go. For instance, you can swirl your tongue around the tip of your partner’s, use your lips to create a gentle suction for your partner’s bottom lip, upper lip, or tongue, or trace your tongue along your partner’s lips. By cycling through different kissing techniques, you’ll demonstrate different intensities of your desire—kiss them powerfully, and you’ll send powerful signals of desire; kiss them lightly, and leave them wanting more.

3. Move away from their lips.

Make-out sessions aren’t just about kissing on the mouth—wandering away from your partner’s mouth can increase their desire and stimulate other erogenous zones. During the session, let your mouth move away from your partner’s lips to kiss down their jawline, along their cheeks, against their ear, down their neck, or across their chest. If you give your partner a hickey (a bruise-like spot that remains after you suck on their skin), ask permission first—hickies can last for several days, and your partner may not want one in a visible place.

4. Introduce teeth.

If you and your partner are comfortable, introducing a gentle nibble into a make-out session can be a great way to increase the intensity. The difference in sensation—from the softness of your lips and tongue to the hard surface of your teeth—can draw your partner’s attention and add some dramatic flair to the experience. To use your teeth while kissing, take your partner’s upper or lower lip in your mouth and press lightly with your teeth; other good places to try nibbling are your partner’s jawline, ear lobes, neck, collarbone, and shoulders.

5. Ask for feedback.

Whether it’s your first time or you’re an experienced kisser, getting feedback can help you learn from your experiences and become a better kisser and sexual partner. After your make-out session winds down, consider asking your partner what they did and didn’t like about the experience. Be courteous—if they have a few critiques, accept them thankfully and avoid getting defensive or upset. Next time you make out—whether with the same partner or someone new—make a conscious effort to implement that feedback for an even better experience.

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